Neuro-Affirming Parent Support

Compassionate support to empower parents navigating the journey of raising Autistic, ADHD, AuDHD, PDA, and Neurodivergent children and young people.

Overview

I provide practical, neuro-affirming and time-limited support to help families thrive.

In one-hour, online sessions, I guide you in understanding your neurodivergent child’s strengths and needs while developing strategies to reduce distress and overwhelm.

My goal is to empower you to support and advocate for your child confidently.

The work we do focuses on meeting needs, reducing distress, strengthening relationships, supporting co-regulation, accessing resources, enhancing self-advocacy, and improving well-being for both you and your neurodivergent children.

Two clients talk with Abi Raymond

Details

  • 55-minute online sessions
  • Available Mondays, Tuesdays, Wednesdays, and Thursdays (9:30 AM – 2:30 PM)
  • Limited evening slots after 7:30 PM
  • Flexible scheduling
  • One-off sessions available
  • Follow-up emails with resources and strategies
  • Referrals to additional supports when appropriate

 

What you can expect

  • Initial assessment session

  • Creation of a plan in line with whānau/young person’s goals

  • Follow up sessions focusing on 1-2 main goals (3-6 sessions)

  • Regular review to determine next steps

Approach

Abi Raymond in counselling session with a couple

Practical Support

  • Time-limited, brief intervention model
  • Focus on specific, achievable goals
  • Sustainable support that considers family life demands
  • External meeting attendance for advocacy
  • Creation of tailored resources and visuals

 

Abi Raymond in counselling session with a couple

Neurodiversity-Informed Practice

  • Grounded in the neurodiversity paradigm (learn more here)
  • Focus on adapting environments and meeting needs
  • Development of neuro-affirming strategies
  • Emphasis on reducing distress and building resilience
  • Support for self-advocacy and building positive identities
Abi Raymond in counselling session with a couple

Co-Regulation Focus

  • Supporting emotional regulation through co-regulation
  • Practical strategies for parent-child co-regulation
  • Building parental self-regulation skills
  • Creating foundations for emotional wellbeing for all the whānau

 

Common areas of support

Service navigation and advocacy for assessment, services, and funding

Identifying and nurturing strengths and interests

Supporting emotional expression and co-regulation

Understanding Autism, ADHD, and AuDHD through a lived experience lens

Creating neuro-affirming home and school environments

Fostering authentic social connections and relationships

Parental wellbeing, including accessing funding, respite, and support services

Building positive self-identity and self-acceptance

Understanding and supporting sensory needs

Developing understanding of neurodivergent behaviour and communication

Implementing effective transition strategies

Lived-Experience Informed

As a neurodivergent individual, professional and parent, I draw on my lived experience and 20 years of professional practice working with parents. I understand the challenges of raising kids in a neurotypical world, where their behaviours are often misunderstood and parents are unfairly blamed.

I prioritise practical, realistic strategies that fit into the busyness of family life.

My approach combines personal insight with professional expertise, providing empathetic support that genuinely respects and values the experiences of neurodivergent parents.

Parent of autistic 16-year-old

Abi is amazing. She made us feel like we can go through this and come out the other side. She gave us hope!

Parent of autistic 16-year-old

Parent of autistic 4-year-old

Abi was so easy to talk with and she is so knowledgeable on all areas of autism and understanding families going through struggles.

Parent of autistic 4-year-old

Parent of autistic 8-year-old

Thanks, so much for all your help understanding our son. It has been life changing.

Parent of autistic 8-year-old

Parent of a 10 year old girl

Abi has been encouraging and validating in our sessions. She explained things thoroughly and listened to us when we shared some emotional stories. This made all the difference.  Her visual supports helped immensely as well. We now understand our daughter and know how we can support her more

Parent of a 10 year old girl

Parents of autistic teen

Thank you so much for all your help, you have been amazing. The tools and support we have received for our son has been outstanding.  You personally have been incredible, kind and patient in your support of us, we are incredibly grateful.

Parents of autistic teen

Parent of autistic 6-year-old

Abi has been great. She was able to cut through the barriers that we put up and reach our actual fears, thoughts and emotions, questions etc. It’s great to know we are not alone

Parent of autistic 6-year-old

Cost

Session Fees 

  • Initial Assessment (55 minutes + follow-up plan): $225 (inc. GST)
  • Ongoing Support Sessions (55 minutes + follow-up): $200 (inc. GST)
  • External Meeting Attendance: $200 per hour (inc. GST) plus travel
  • Resource Creation: $120 per hour (inc. GST)

Book an initial consultation

To book an initial consultation please provide some details about yourself, your child and the areas you are wanting support with. This information will be held confidentially and used only to work alongside you.

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